Let’s set expectations early.
Rimming isn’t some advanced-level sex boss fight.
It’s curiosity, comfort, and confidence with a side of tongue talent.
If you’re new, nervous, or just tired of awkward angles and leg cramps, this guide is for you. We’re keeping it beginner-friendly, zero shame, and very much freak-on-the-sheets approved.
And yes we’re bringing furniture. The good kind.
First Things First: What Makes Good Rimming Positions?
Great rimming positions have three things in common:
- Easy access (no yoga certification required)
- Comfort for both people
- Stability so nobody’s faceplanting mid-lick
Spoiler: most beds fail this test.
That’s where the right setup changes everything.

Meet the Game-Changer: ASSTRONAUT Rim Chair (Home in Bold)
👉 ASSTRONAUT | Face Sitting Sex Throne | Queening Rim Chair
This isn’t a chair.
It’s a command center for ass worship.
Product details that actually matter:
- Heavy-duty metal construction
- 210 lb weight capacity (respect the limit)
- Adjustable height: 13”–15” so mouths and asses finally line up
- High-quality foam handles for balance, grip, and control
- Designed specifically for facesitting and rimming
- Proudly LGBTQ+ owned brand
Translation: stable, intentional, and built by people who know what they’re doing.
Now let’s get into the positions.
1. The Classic Face-Sitting (Beginner Gold Standard)
This is Rimming’s missionary.
One partner sits.
The other partner serves.
Why it works for beginners:
- Natural positioning
- Easy to control pressure and depth
- Zero acrobatics
On the ASSTRONAUT, this position is different. The adjustable height (13”–15”) means you’re not hovering or squatting like it’s leg day. The foam handles give the sitter balance so nobody’s wobbling like a newborn giraffe.
Comfort = confidence. Confidence = better tongue work.
2. Reverse Face-Sitting (A Little Spice, Still Safe)
Same throne. New angle.
The sitter faces away instead of forward.
More access. Different sensations. Same stability.
Why beginners love it:
- Less eye contact if that’s intimidating
- Easier breathing space
- Feels naughty without feeling risky
The ASSTRONAUT’s 210 lb-rated metal frame keeps things solid while you explore. No creaking. No “wait, don’t move.”
Just steady pressure and smooth control.
3. The Hover & Tease (For the Curious, Not Committed)
This one’s about control and pacing.
The receiving partner hovers slightly above the mouth close enough to feel breath, not full contact yet.
Why it works:
- Great for easing nerves
- Lets the receiver adjust intensity
- Builds anticipation like a slow burn
The foam handles matter here. They help the sitter stay balanced while hovering, so nobody’s thighs are screaming five seconds in.
4. The Seated Lean-Back (Relaxed, Lazy, Delicious)
The receiver sits back slightly, using the handles for support.
Giver stays planted and comfortable.
Why beginners love it:
- Less weight directly on the face
- Easier breathing
- Longer sessions without fatigue
This position is where the ASSTRONAUT shines as a queening seat, not just a stool. Ergonomic angles > awkward bed edges.
5. The Power Sit (Confidence Builder)
This one’s about mindset.
The receiver sits fully, relaxed, unapologetic.
The giver stays grounded, supported, and ready.
Why it’s beginner-friendly (surprisingly):
- Clear roles
- Minimal movement
- Maximum confidence boost
When the furniture is designed for facesitting like the ASSTRONAUT this position feels intentional, not intimidating.
Beginner Tips That Actually Help (No Lecture Energy)
- Hygiene matters. Shower. Fresh wipes help. Confidence starts clean.
- Start slow. Tease first. Build up.
- Talk. Moans count. Words help more.
- Use hands. It’s not a tongue-only Olympics.
- Take breaks. Rimming is a marathon, not a sprint.
Furniture that’s stable and height-adjustable means fewer interruptions and more flow.

Why Furniture Beats Beds for Rimming Positions
Beds:
- Sink
- Shift
- Kill angles
The ASSTRONAUT Rim Chair:
- Stays put
- Holds weight (up to 210 lbs)
- Keeps mouths exactly where they need to be
It’s not extra.
It’s practical.
Final Take
The best rimming positions aren’t about being wild.
They’re about being comfortable enough to enjoy it.
If you’re a beginner, don’t fight gravity, furniture, or bad angles.
Sit smarter.
Lick happier.
ASSTRONAUT by Home in Bold
Built for facesitting. Designed for confidence. Proudly inclusive.
FAQ – Rimming Positions for Beginners
Is rimming safe for beginners?
Yes, with consent, communication, and basic hygiene, it’s a perfectly normal and enjoyable activity.
Do I need special furniture for rimming?
You don’t need it, but furniture like the ASSTRONAUT makes positions more comfortable, stable, and beginner-friendly.
What makes the ASSTRONAUT different from a regular chair?
It’s built for facesitting: metal frame, 210 lb capacity, adjustable height (13”–15”), and foam handles for balance.
Is this chair suitable for gay and straight couples?
Absolutely. It’s designed for all bodies, all orientations, and all comfort levels.
Can beginners use face-sitting positions safely?
Yes especially when the chair is height-adjustable and designed for breathing space and balance.

